The initial meeting between Brummell and
the Prince of Wales did not occur in such a pastoral idyll as is laid out by Murray. It was one of the tales spread about him
that is not only unlikely but highly improbable as no one has been able to track down this aunt 'Searle' that is mentioned. She
could have done a little more research before spouting off this apocryphal tale.
It is much more likely that the Prince of Wales
met Brummell either at Eton (as he was known to visit) or equally as likely
through Devonshire House where Brummell met the Duchess of Devonshire.
Brummell's father was on very good terms with Charles Fox, the MP - who was
a close friend of the Duchesses.
Certainly there is no definitive record of their first meeting - but in May
1794 he was gazetted as a cornet in the 10th Light Dragoons, The Prince of
Wales Regiment, less than a month before his 16th birthday.
Murray mentions the Incident on page 31 which she states as 1814 - "Whose your Fat
Friend" actually occurred (in all the books I've read) in 1813.
The situation was that Brummell, Lord Alvanely, Sir Henry Mildmay and Henry
Pierrepoint had had a marvellous run of luck at Hazard at Watier's in April
of 1813 and decided to celebrate they would hold a ball at the Argyll rooms.
The Prince of Wales was already cold with Brummell and was also no longer on
good terms with Mildmay. So Pierrepont was deputed to ask if he would like
to attend.
So the Prince said yes and all four hosts were there to receive him. The
Prince arrived, shook hands with Pierrepont and Alvanely , but looked
Mildmay and Brummell full in the face before passing on without a word. The insult was
deliberate not to mention premeditated. If he had been angry with them the
Prince did not have to attend, nor did he need to stoop to such public
rudeness - it was a deliberate calculated snub. It was then that Brummell
delivered his line, "Alvanely, who's your fat friend."
The Prince of Wales was not a little sensitive about his weight by the way.
Murray states firmly that this was the reason their friendship ended - however no biography on Brummell claims this - they
all put the end down to various misunderstandings that happened much earlier. The "Fat Friend" incident being the final, and public
demonstration of this fall out.
She also implies it is Brummell's rudeness when in fact this comment from
Brummell was preceded by that incredibly boorish incident by the Prince. It should be noted that Brummell kept
life long friends - unlike the Prince who went through friends
like water - even in his exile Brummell's friends still visited and wrote to him,
proving his power of friendship beyond his influence on society.
I would also like to add that there is yet another error in Murray when she
talks of the Prince of Wales offering Brummell a cornetcy in the 10th
Hussars in the 1790's (which was the Prince of Wales Regiment). The Prince
of Wales Regiment was the 10th Light Dragoons. It was changed into a Hussar
Regiment in 1806, some 8 years after Brummell sold out.
I would also question her assertion that Neckclothatania (published in 1818)
mentioned on page 33 (although not by name) was solely satirical - or had
fictional ties. Lewis Melville in "Beau Brummell" seems to think it real
enough, as do a number of other writers I have read. Certainly the
Four-In-Hand knot is the one that most men use today to tie their ties.
Neckclothatania was published some 2 years after the flight of Brummell to
the continent.
I would also add that in a later chapter Murray asserts that Brummell spent
most of his money on clothes. In fact it seems that Brummell spent
considerably less on his clothes than many other men of his time - he lost
his money - as did most of his contemporary's - on gaming.
Also on Page 31 she refers to Brummell living 'beyond his means' in a house
on Chesterfield Street, previously she refers to him inheriting 30,000
pounds. In fact Brummell put this a lot higher - probably more like
50-60,000 pounds which gave him an easy income of 2,000 pounds a year.
Considering he rarely entertained, dressed with care but not extravagantly
and did fill his house with exquisite but I don't think excessive furniture
etc - it is much more likely that the other biographers that have referred
to his gaming and the huge stakes at the clubs he frequented, this is more
likely. He did joke once when asked how much a single man would need to live
on in town, as 1000 pounds. This was clearly one of his satirical statements
as it would have cost much less than that - assuming they didn't get
corrupted by the gambling clubs on the way.
Just a note on his house in Chesterfield Street. He lived at no.4
Chesterfield Street from 1797 until 1809 - although I have heard it referred
to as 'lodgings' rather than he bourght the house. In 1810 he moved to 24
South Street, and moved again in 1812, at the height of his fame and
influence, to Chapel Street, where he lived until his flight to the
continent.
Also, as far as I am aware, no one at his Levee's (the invitations to watch
him dress in the mornings) was actually allowed in the dressing room. The
doors would be opened after he had done his ablutions (as recorded in
Murray) but they would be in another room, not actually with Brummell
himself.